504 – حدثنا أبو الوليد هشام بن عبد الملك قال: حدثنا شعبة قال: الوليد بن العيزار أخبرني قال: سمعت أبا عمرو الشيباني يقول: حدثنا صاحب هذه الدار، وأشار إلى دار عبد الله، قال: سألت النبي ﷺ : أي العمل أحب إلىالله؟ قال: (الصلاة على وقتها). قال: ثم أي؟ قال: (ثم بر الوالدين). قال: ثم أي؟ قال: (الجهاد في سبيل الله). قال: حدثني بهن، ولو استزدته لزادني
Abu Al-Waleed Hisham bin Abdul Malik told us, he said: Shu’bah told us, he said: Al-Waleed bin Al-Eizar told me, he said: I heard Abu Amr Al-Shaibani say: The owner of this house told us, and referred to the house of Abdullah, he said: I asked the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him: Which deed is most beloved to God? He said: (Prayer on its time), He said: Then which? He said: (Then honor the parents). He said: Then which? Jihad for the sake of Allah said). He said: Tell me about them, and if I had increased him, he would have increased me
The exploration of the noble Hadith:
Do you work for someone? Or are you a business owner, in these twocases you will find that the business owner (whether you or someone else) has things that he loves from those who work under him and things that he hates, And things that he loves very much andare a reason for being close to this business owner - to God is the highest example, God Almighty - when the great companion asked the Messenger of God about the most beloved deeds to God, and he replied with the most important to God, then what follows it is important and so on
The first act: He began by praying for me at that time
In the Qur’an there is a verse that praises men who are not distracted by trade or other things from prayer, and you are working. It is difficult in a place, if you work in a company, for example, to leave work at the time of prayer in order to perform the prayer on time, unless the employer is satisfied with that, otherwise you will get yourself into problems, so Because it is difficult and impossible in some places, so praying for sake of Allah at its time is one of the best acts of worship and deeds that God loves, because you left what brings you money and prestige, to stand up to a servile servant and hope to God for simple or big things.
The second act: honoring one's parents
The wordrighteousness: It is not action, but it is all kinds of goodness that you knowor do not know. It is all kinds of goodness that the righteous people in yoursociety have agreed upon, To pray for them 5 times a day and night in prayereven if they are not dead (righteousness), feed them, release them, give themand not take advantage of them (modern studies confirm that adults aresubjected to bullying from children and society just like teenagers) And lookat the results of this related study, and before I leave you with it, you mustknow that if God - the Most High - commands you to honor your parents, theissue is not them.do they need you or not, it is a purely psychological issue,God knows and you and me do not know,they have psychological needs, not a condition that is all material.
The bullying in old age
Content analysis results produced seven subjects, all associated with bullying experiences such as
Impaired ability to learn
Loss of ability to make decisions
And look the least attractive
and less social skills
and gender discrimination
and less financial resources
Topics identified as most prominent in bullying are guidelines the value of social policies and interventions toward bullying among the elderly. Given the paucity of studies on bullying in the elderly, this study is relevant to understanding the experience of the elderly in relation to be subjected to bullying and to implement psychological and social intervention programs, including cases of bullying affect the elderly living in the community.
The third act: Jihad for the sake of God
Jihad is a very thorny subject - whoever hears it remembers only the sword, the rifle and other means of combat, and if God - the Most High - would have replaced the word jihad with the word fighting, but he did not, He does, and jihad: It is the exhaustion of effort in doing something, i.e. you will not be able to do another work ye , This work, and it has in Islam more than 21 types such as learning, teaching and others, whether for women or… For a man, of course, the highest reward is to fight the warriors infidels
In a hurry, we say some types of jihad
1 - Combative jihad (the highest type of jihad)
Allah says وَقَاتِلُوهُمْ حَتَّىٰ لَاتَكُونَ فِتْنَةٌ وَيَكُونَ الدِّينُ لِلَّهِ ۖفَإِنِ انتَهَوْا فَلَا عُدْوَانَ إِلَّا عَلَى الظَّالِمِينَ﴾) البقرة: 193
And fight them until there is no persecution and the religion is for God. and if they desist, then there is no enmity except against the wrongdoers.” (Al-Baqarah: 193)
2 - The Great Jihad (The Holy Qur’an)
قال تعالي (فَلَا تُطِعِ ٱلْكَٰفِرِينَ وَجَٰهِدْهُم بِهِۦجِهَادًا كَبِيرًا (الفرقان - 52)
Almighty Allah (Do not obey the unbelievers and strive hard for them with great effort) (Al-Furqan - 52)
It means: (the Qur'an )
3 - The greater jihad (the jihad of the soul)
Hadith: We returned from the lesser jihad to the greater jihad Narrated by al-Bayhaqi with a weak chain of narrators
Types of women’s jihad (Hajj and Umrah - education - learning - good adornment and good treatment)
4 - Hajj and Umrah
The Prophet ﷺ said when Aisha said: O Messenger of God! See the Better Business Jihad do we not struggle?! He, peace and blessings be upon him, said: You must have a jihad that does not include fighting, Hajj and Umrah
On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, on the authority of the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, who said: “Whoever goes out to seek knowledge is in the cause of God until he returns.”
5 - The learning
On the authority of Anas bin Malik, may God be pleased with him, on the authority of the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, who said: “Whoever goes out to seek knowledge for sake God, is in path of God until he return.
6- Teaching, especially in the mosque of the Messenger of God
Abu Huraira, may God be pleased with him, narrated that the Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said: Whoever comes to this mosque of mine does not come to it except for good to learn or teach, then he is in the rank of a fighter in the cause of God, and whoever comes to it for something other than that, he is in the position of a man looking at someone else’s belongings
The participation of women in the jihad of education is inevitable, to correct their path and the path of the generations behind them. In the jihad of education, the nation needs its men and women, In order to break into the obstacles of souls and horizons, and to build a human capable of change and construction.
Good adornment and good treatment of the husband
Asmaa bint Yazid bin Al-Sakan Al-Ashhaliya, the daughter of Muadh bin Jabal's paternal aunt - may God be pleased with them - converted to Islam and pledged allegiance to the Messenger - may God bless him and grant him peace - the pledge of allegiance to Al-Radwan. She narrated hadiths about him and witnessed the conquest of Khaybar with him. She was called “the Messenger of Women” to the Prophet - may God’s prayers and peace be upon him.
Muslim bin Ubaid narrated that she came to the Prophet - may God bless him and grant him peace
And he was among his companions, and she said: By my father and mother, you are, O Messenger of God, I am the arrival of women to you. God Almighty has sent you to all men and women, so we believe in you and in your God, and we are the women’s community, confined cubicles, the foundations of your homes, the fulfillment of your desires, and the bearers of your children, and that you, men, have been preferred to us in gatherings and groups, and in the visit the sick, And witnessing funerals, and pilgrimages after the pilgrimage, and better than that is jihad in the cause of God Almighty - and if a man goes out for a Umrah, or a pilgrimage, or a jihad, we protect for you your property and we spin your clothes, And we raised your children for you, so shall we not share the reward with you?! So the Prophet turned to his companions with all his face and then said: Have you ever heard a woman’s speech better than questioning about her religion than this? They said: O Messenger of God, we did not think that a woman would be guided to something like this. So the Prophet turned to her and said: Understand, O woman, and inform the women behind you that good adornment and gentle treatment to her husband, and request to please him, and her following his approval alters all of that, so the woman left while rejoicing.
9 - Seeking to serve the widow and the poor
Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him, narrated that the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: “The one who strives for the widow and the needy is like the one who fights in the cause of God or the one who stands by night, who fasts during the day.”
10 - Good deeds in the ten days of Dhul-Hijjah
Ibn Abbas - may God be pleased with them both - narrated that the Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said: “There are no days in which righteous deeds are more beloved to God than these ten days, They said, O Messenger of God, nor jihad for the sake of God. He said, “Not even jihad for the sake of God, except for a man who went out with himself and his money and did not return with anything
11 - The worker on charity
Rafi’ bin Khadeej, may God be pleased with him, narrated that the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: “The one who work on charity with the right is like a conqueror in the way of God until he returns to his home.”
In response to this hadith: Remember, you who work on charities in charitable associations and international organizations that help the poor and needy in famines and other things, that you stole flour, sugar, and other things for your own sake, especially your family, and left the poor hungry, an act that does not please God only, but you will have a painful punishment in this world before the hereafter - we ask God Almighty to implement it in you.
All what came above is a drop of water from reward of Jihad, and which you see there's many types of Jihad, don't dimise yourself from the wage but look what you do with who?
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