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The husband condescending over his wife

Updated: Mar 27



Allah says

﴿وَإِنِ امْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِن بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا أَوْ إِعْرَاضًا فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْهِمَا أَن يُصْلِحَا بَيْنَهُمَا صُلْحًا ۚ وَالصُّلْحُ خَيْرٌ ۗ وَأُحْضِرَتِ الْأَنفُسُ الشُّحَّ ۚ وَإِن تُحْسِنُوا وَتَتَّقُوا فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ كَانَ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ خَبِيرًا﴾ [ النساء 128]

“And if a woman fears condescending from her husband or stay away, there is no sin on them if they make reconcile between them, and reconcile is better. and the souls are brought the miserliness. But if you do the benevolence and pious Allah, then indeed, Allah is ever Expert of what you do. (An-Nisa’ 128)

From the following noble verse:

exaltation: avoid her unjustly - Scarcity: miserliness combined with greed

1 - If a rift occurs in a family between a husband and a wife, and this is injustice on the part of the husband, then God Almighty says: - If it happens that a woman sees her husband exalting himself over her, then it is Al - nshoose: He is the one who rose and emerged from the earth, and he turned away from her unjustly or turned away from her and kept her sad... There is no sin on those around them if they reconcile between them.

2 - The reconciliation is better: Always and forever, the shortest path to future problems is reconciliation, as a quarrel begins with two or more people and then ends with two families and acquaintances, with whom the relationship ends forever.

3 - And the souls bring about stinginess: If you wish, you can say: God - the Almighty - is the first to teach us that stinginess is not only in money, but in morals, feelings, and other things, the Messenger of God - may God bless him and grant him peace - says (...and beware of stinginess, for stinginess destroyed those who came before you...) Imagine that the scarcity of feelings could be a detrimental effect for that couple.

4 - And if they improve: what is this? Here is an unjust husband, here is a husband who is condescending to his wife and intends to divorce, and he is stingy, not with money, but with feelings, so God - the Almighty - changes his view of the idea of benevolence (if they benevolence ) that is, the possibility that you will do kindness to your life partner, Whether you fear God in it or persist in your wrongdoing, for God is Expert of what you do. You will not find anyone who does what is in your soul like the Expert - Glory be to Him.

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