فِي ٱلدُّنۡيَا وَٱلۡأٓخِرَةِۗ وَيَسۡـَٔلُونَكَ عَنِ ٱلۡيَتَٰمَىٰۖ قُلۡ إِصۡلَاحٞ لَّهُمۡ خَيۡرٞۖ وَإِن تُخَالِطُوهُمۡ فَإِخۡوَٰنُكُمۡۚ وَٱللَّهُ يَعۡلَمُ ٱلۡمُفۡسِدَ مِنَ ٱلۡمُصۡلِحِۚ وَلَوۡ شَآءَ ٱللَّهُ لَأَعۡنَتَكُمۡۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ عَزِيزٌ حَكِيمٞ (220)
in this world and the hereafter, and they ask you about orphans, so reform to them is good, and if you mix with them, then they are your brothers, and God knows the spoiler of the reformers, and if God had willed, He would have hindered you. Indeed, God is Mighty, Wise. (220)
When the Almighty’s saying was revealed: “Indeed, those who unjustly devour the wealth of orphans are eating fire in their stomachs, and they will burn with blazing fire.” This was difficult for Muslims, and they isolated their food from the food of orphans, fearing for themselves from eating it, even in this case in which it was customary to participate in it, and they asked the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, on that, the Almighty told them that what is intended is to fix the orphans’ money, by preserving and preserving it, and trading in it, and if you mix them with them in food and other things, it is permissible in a way that does not harm the orphans, because they are your brothers, and it is the business of a brother to mix with his brother, and the reference in that is to intention and action.
It is known of his intention, that he is a reformer of the orphan
And he has no greed for his money, so if something enters him - unintentionally - there is no harm in it.
A look at the verse
In the previous verse, its end was, so that you might reflect, and here (in this world and the Hereafter) it is Surah Al-Ahkam, and God imposes and we must respond to these obligation with full submission, were it not for contemplating the conditions of people in this world with alcohol, gambling, and everything that God, the Most High, has forbidden to this nation, and of course other rulings, and the expected consequence of those who oppose it, when we move one step forward and implement the rulings of God. The West and much of the East now, drinks wine as water, with every meal he is nourished with, and whatever grows from what is forbidden, the Fire is more worthy of it, so we will think about my Lord - perhaps we will reach what you want with our thinking, He asks the Mujahideen believers or others who have excuses about the Mujahideen’s children, for at the beginning of the nation and at the end there were more deaths of men, as for in the middle of time, the death of men was from the stomach and related diseases. Yes, death comes in any case, and we have to choose, and this nation will not succeed except through jihad, for it is the height of its hump, and we agreed in the previous explanation that jihad has many types, including (jihad against the soul) what the Messenger called the greater jihad than the combative jihad - although the hadith is weak, but it is possible to rely on it - and its relationship here pertains to orphans, the idea of mixing food or separating it because - God forbid = you need his money, is a disturbing idea for the pious believer, but reassurance lies in the fact that God (knows the corrupt from the reformer) Had God willed, He would have made hardship and hardship a place of confusion, but He did not do with this nation what He did with previous nations whom He seized with hardship, and some people do not respond except with severity, so the prohibition is severe, from the wisdom of God - the Almighty - to make some women sterile, or their husbands not to have children, or something happens to one of the spouses during the period of their marriage (illness, delay in marriage, etc.) They do not have children, and there are orphans full of hearing and sight, they look at you if you go to them with the eyes of pity and mercy and the tongue of their condition, please sponsor us, don't you answer, oh, believer? You will not only have mercy on him, but you will have mercy on yourself from the deprivation of years, and you will sponsor a child in your home, not in his home (orphanages) so you give him tenderness, as studies have proven that if he did not get it, he would have died of grief, even if he is fed with food, and remember to wipe the hair of the orphan, soften your hard heart today, and you will become one of the most flexible people, and the reality is prove that those who sponsored orphans and lived in their homes and under their eyes that they were a blessing to help them, take the step now and not tomorrow.
وَلَا تَنكِحُواْ ٱلۡمُشۡرِكَٰتِ حَتَّىٰ يُؤۡمِنَّۚ وَلَأَمَةٞ مُّؤۡمِنَةٌ خَيۡرٞ مِّن مُّشۡرِكَةٖ وَلَوۡ أَعۡجَبَتۡكُمۡۗ وَلَا تُنكِحُواْ ٱلۡمُشۡرِكِينَ حَتَّىٰ يُؤۡمِنُواْۚ وَلَعَبۡدٞ مُّؤۡمِنٌ خَيۡرٞ مِّن مُّشۡرِكٖ وَلَوۡ أَعۡجَبَكُمۡۗ أُوْلَٰٓئِكَ يَدۡعُونَ إِلَى ٱلنَّارِۖ وَٱللَّهُ يَدۡعُوٓاْ إِلَى ٱلۡجَنَّةِ وَٱلۡمَغۡفِرَةِ بِإِذۡنِهِۦۖ وَيُبَيِّنُ ءَايَٰتِهِۦ لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمۡ يَتَذَكَّرُونَ (221)
And do not marry a female idolatress until she believes, and a believing female slave woman is better than a female idolatrous woman, and if you like her, and do not marry idolaters until they believe and a believing male slave is better than a male idolatrous, those invite to Hellfire, and God invites to Paradise and forgiveness by His permission, and He explains His verses to the people so that they may remember (221)
And benefit from the explanation of the verse
The prohibition of mixing with every polytheist and innovator, because if marriage is not permissible - even though there are many interests in it - so the abstract mixture is from a foremost chapter, and especially, the mixture in which the polytheist and the like are elevated to the Muslim, such as service and the like
And in His saying, “And do not marry polytheists,” evidence of
Considering the guardian in marriage
"And God invites to Paradise and forgiveness."
That is: He invites His servants to obtain Paradise and forgiveness, which among its effects is the payment of punishments, by calling for its causes of good deeds, sincere repentance, useful knowledge, and righteous deeds.
A look at the verse
A direct prohibition from the first word in the verse. No, it is forbidden for him to marry an idolater in doctrinal terms, even if you are allowed to marry the People of the Book (whether Christian or Jewish) It is strange that God knows your intrusive (even if you like him/her) admiration is the first stage of affection, but it is not everything, so how many people we admire him/her in form, position, money, or other than that, one of the charms of life, and the reality of bad relationships has proven that it is not useful or correct to be associated with it from the beginning, affection has introductions and consequences, or if we could, we would say that it is a cycle that begins with admiration and ends after companionship with attachment or aversion.
The emotion is defined as
A cycle of interrelated and simultaneous changes in the state of all or most of the five organisms' subsystems in response to an evaluation of an external or internal stimulating event as relevant to the organism's primary concerns" (Emotion Researcher, 2015).
The Three Main Attachment Styles: Which One Are You?
Studies show that securely attached people are healthy, and it's the kind everyone should strive for.
Anxious attachment style Anxious attachment is characterized by worrying that the other person, whether with a significant other, or with a friend or family member, will not reciprocate your level of availability
The avoidance method
My partner, Vanessa, has an avoidant attachment style. Children who fall into this category tend to avoid interaction with their parents, and show little or no distress during separation. The child may think that he cannot count on the relationship.
The secure attachment style
Securely attached people value their self-esteem and ability to be themselves in their relationships. They openly seek support and comfort from their partners, and are similarly happy when their partner relies on them for emotional support.
The good news about attachment styles
We can become more and more securely attached as we experience healthy attachment habits in our adult relationships.
The witness from the study
That admiration has nothing to do with affection and attachment after marriage, for God - the Almighty - has not forbidden you anything except that He knows that you are qualified to do it, so be sure of the judgment of your Lord.
وَيَسۡـَٔلُونَكَ عَنِ ٱلۡمَحِيضِۖ قُلۡ هُوَ أَذٗى فَٱعۡتَزِلُواْ ٱلنِّسَآءَ فِي ٱلۡمَحِيضِ وَلَا تَقۡرَبُوهُنَّ حَتَّىٰ يَطۡهُرۡنَۖ فَإِذَا تَطَهَّرۡنَ فَأۡتُوهُنَّ مِنۡ حَيۡثُ أَمَرَكُمُ ٱللَّهُۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يُحِبُّ ٱلتَّوَّٰبِينَ وَيُحِبُّ ٱلۡمُتَطَهِّرِينَ (222)
And they ask you about menstruation. Say it is harmful, so keep away from women during menstruation, and do not approach them until they are purified, and when they are purified So lead them astray from where God has commanded you. Indeed, God loves those who repent and loves those who's purify (222)
Then the Almighty said: “And they ask you about menstruation.”
The verses: The Almighty informs about their question about menstruation, and whether the woman is in her condition after menstruation, as she was before that, or is she avoided at all, as the Jews do?
So the Almighty told that menstruation is harmful
And if it was harm, then it is wise for God Almighty to prevent His servants from harm alone, and that is why He said: “So separate from women during menstruation,” that is: the place of menstruation, which is intercourse in the vagina in particular, so this is what is forbidden unanimously.
And the allocation of retirement in menstruation
This indicates that direct contact with a menstruating woman, other than having intercourse with the vagina, is permissible.
A look at the verse
To learn about common questions about menstruation medically, healthily, and jurisprudentially, just follow this link
نِسَآؤُكُمۡ حَرۡثٞ لَّكُمۡ فَأۡتُواْ حَرۡثَكُمۡ أَنَّىٰ شِئۡتُمۡۖ وَقَدِّمُواْ لِأَنفُسِكُمۡۚ وَٱتَّقُواْ ٱللَّهَ وَٱعۡلَمُوٓاْ أَنَّكُم مُّلَٰقُوهُۗ وَبَشِّرِ ٱلۡمُؤۡمِنِينَ (223)
Your women are atillage for yourselves, so go to your tillage wherever you wish and offer to youselves, and pious Allah and know that you will meet Him and give good tidings to the believers (223)
"Your women are your tilth, so come to your tilth as you wish."
Coming and running, but it is only in the front, because it is the place of plowing, and it is the place from which the child is born.
And there is evidence for the prohibition of intercourse in the anus, because God did not permit sexual intercourse with women except in the place from which the tillage is.
There have been many hadiths on the authority of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, prohibiting this, and cursing the one who does it.
“And offer for yourselves” that is: from drawing closer to God by doing good deeds, and from that is for a man to live with his wife and have intercourse with her on the face of closeness and reward, and on the hope of obtaining offspring, whom God will benefit from.
A look at the verse
1 - God Almighty likened the woman to arable land, and that the male is the one who has to plow, which is proven by modern science that the man is responsible for determining the quality of the fetus ... the links are below
2 - Introduce yourselves: the offering for sexual intercourse, which you can read in the psychological links below
3- And pious Allah and know that you will meet Him: this is the strange and strange thing about the verse: O man, do not look above the woman in marriage because she gives you daughters, you and your family are responsible for this matter, and you fall upon her like a beast just to give birth to a male for you... Just remember that she is a living being and she will feel negative feelings towards you if you do that to her, and read what modern science says to you, and remember that you will meet God, and He will hold you accountable for your special relationship.
4 - As for the believers: the pious in this matter (the order not to divorce the wife for reasons outside her, or other attraction and aversion to the issue of childbearing or the special relationship), they have the good news.
Geneticists make a new discovery about how the sex of a child is determined
It's not just about the X-Y chromosomes, but involves a "regulator" that increases or decreases the activity of genes that decides whether we become male or female. The study, "Human sex reversal due to duplication or deletion of SOX9-mediated base enhancers," is published in the journal Nature Communications. MCRI researcher and Hudson Institute doctoral student Brittany Croft is the first author. “The sex of a child is determined by the make-up of its chromosomes at conception. A fetus with two X chromosomes will become a girl, while a fetus with two X-Y combinations will result in a boy. The Y chromosome carries an important gene called SRY that works on another gene called SOX9,” Ms. Croft said. To begin the development of the testicles in the fetus.Development of the testis.
You can complete the study from the link below
Is it a boy or a girl? The father's family may provide evidence of this
It's all father's genes
Let's go back to the ultrasound discussion. When I tell patients that there is a 50/50 chance for both sexes, he also tells them that the father's genes determine the sex of the child because some of his sperm carry X chromosomes and some carry Y chromosomes. The sperm carries equal numbers of X and Y chromosomes. X for man and X for woman combine to become a girl, and the man's Y combines with the woman's X to become a boy. But if the sperm don't have equal X and Y values, or if other genetic factors are at play, it could affect the sex ratio.
Researchers in England set out to determine if this was true.
They downloaded family trees from a genealogy forum, and then deleted data they felt was inaccurate—for example, people reporting having more than one parent or having a discrepancy in an individual's sex. This left the researchers with 927 family trees that had at least three generations and included more than half a million individuals dating back to 1600.
Their findings were telling
In computer models, when researchers removed men from population data before they had a chance to start families, there was an increase in the number of male children born in the next generation. The researchers also found that the sex ratio of families follows the father's side, not the mother's. For example, if a man has more brothers, his children are more likely to be male; If he has more sisters, he is more likely to have daughters. This was not found to be the case for women.
According to this study
The explanation may be due to a gene that controls the balance of X- and Y-bearing sperm. Men who carry the gene that causes sperm to have more Y chromosomes have more sons. During times of war and high casualties among male soldiers, these families are more likely to have more surviving sons. And when these men do have children, they may, like their fathers, be more likely to have boys. This could explain the temporary increase in the sex ratio for that time period.
وَلَا تَجۡعَلُواْ ٱللَّهَ عُرۡضَةٗ لِّأَيۡمَٰنِكُمۡ أَن تَبَرُّواْ وَتَتَّقُواْ وَتُصۡلِحُواْ بَيۡنَ ٱلنَّاسِۚ وَٱللَّهُ سَمِيعٌ عَلِيمٞ (224)
And do not make God object to your oaths, lest you be righteous and pious and reconcile between people, And God is Hearing, Knowing. (224)
This verse is inferred from the well-known rule
That "if interests overlap, the most important of them presented."
Here, perfecting the oath is an interest, and complying with God’s commands in these things is a greater interest than that, so I applied for that, then concluded the verse with these two noble names, and said: “And God is Hearer,” that is, of all voices, “Knowing” of intentions and intentions, and from it, His listening to the sayings of those who swear, and His knowledge of their intentions. Is it good or evil, and within that, warning against his punishments, and that your deeds and intentions have settled his knowledge with him.
A look at the verse
1- Many uncivilized and non-religious people, especially merchants, swear by God a lot, on occasion and inappropriate, to sell a commodity or confirm something, and so on, God - the Almighty - in this verse wants His servants not to make swearing by it a habit, because the idea of confirming something to someone when he did not ask you suggests that you are a liar, so do not include God - the Almighty - in your corrupt equation.
2 - Unless you honor this oath (in your intention), unless the predestination wills it with something else that invites you not to be righteous by faith, and piety is not in the long beard or short pants, It is in the heart, and God is the one who looks after this heart.
3- You may sometimes swear falsely in order to reconcile people, which is one of the great acts of closeness to God, to reconcile quarrels, especially spouses who love each other,
You can swear even if by lying, as there are 3 things in Islam in which you can lie while you are comfortable with your mind
Lying to reconcile the disputants
Deceive enemies in battle
Lying to please the wife
4. Those who swear may be more honest than those who keep their language clean, says one of the authors of a 2017 study. Here's a very small part of that study: Note: God - the Almighty - did not tell you in the noble verse not to swear by God at all, because He knows that this is against instinct, as people swear by all things, and the believers swear by God, And it is an integral part of life, except that He - Glory be to Him - disciplines this instinct and makes you not take God in your speech that you do not fulfill, or every exhibition where you are like this, and God is Most High and Knowing.
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