Aisha, may God be pleased with her, asked: What did the Prophet do to his family? She said: He used to be in the profession of his family, and when the time for prayer came, the narrator came out: Aisha, Mother of the Faithful | The narrator: Al-Albani | Source: true Singular Literature | Page or number: 418 | Summary of the updated verdict: True
He was in the profession of his family - may God bless him and grant him peace - doing the work of the people of the house and he is a leader of the nation - a messenger to all people -Bearer of the banner of spreading Islam to the parts of the earth... What preoccupation is more than this?
So what was he doing - may God bless him and grant him peace - and why?
When she was asked about the condition of the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, in his house and how he was doing, she said: He was in the profession of his family means: in the service of his family in the sense that he was helping them in the work that they do, and from that, he, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, used to serve himself and milk his sheep, He patches his clothes and mends his shoes, and when the time for prayer came, he would go out to it without delay, may God bless him and grant him peace, so we explain what came out of what he did - may God bless him and grant him peace - once again.
1 - He's serves himself
I wonder what it means to serve himself, is he preparing his clothes in which he will go out to the people? Does he wash it and make it clean? God Almighty knows what al-Humaira means by that, May God be pleased with her and please her - with this description of the Messenger of God - may God bless him and grant him peace
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such as preparing a cup of tea - preparing clothes for going out - preparing dinner for himself and his wife, for example, is not prohibited.
2- Milking his sheep
Milking a sheep among peasants is the specialty of women and perhaps children, not men, because it can get his clothes dirty and they may go out after that, It has humility to deal with the animal directly and the cosmic connection with a part of the universe (animals) - We do not live alone - Reducing the burdens on wives - the leg tilt position or maybe squatting is a hidden type of exercise, In addition to the sport of long prayer, kneeling and prostration. and God is superior and knows best.
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Like grounding work for men, it is hard work, but it is required for the luxury of life, as the West calls it psychological well-being.
3- Patching his garment
Fixing what was cut from his dress, with what it has of humility, that he does not have a new dress every time someone cuts it - may God bless him and grant him peace, and the using a needle and thread - How old was he - may God bless him and grant him peace - over forty? Isn't that correct if he was not in this work over fifty? Can he see the needle and insert the thread with it - may God bless him and grant him peace? Mental and life exercises, which creates the spirit of love of life and not moving away from it. and God is superior and knows best.
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Such as sewing a button, installing a zipper, or similar simple works that do not require a specialist.
4 - He lowers his sole
To stitch his shoe, if he used to stitch it, from Al-Khasf: annexation and aggregation, That is, the shoes are cut and joined to each other in order to make them as new shoes, which is a profession today, but it was not a profession in this era, what this means is that the Messenger of God - may God’s prayers and peace be upon him - used to teach the nation with humility and teach men with arrogant noses that house work has reasons for the wife’s love for this loving, cooperative and humble husband, and if any wife asked about a husband like this, she would know that he is an ideal husband in her eyes.
Before I leave you with the side of the soul... Let me remind you of a little thing from the previous hadith, said Mrs. Aisha - may God be pleased with her and her satisfaction - (If the prayer came, he would go out) What does this mean? that is, he was busy with housework until he went out to pray - may God bless him and grant him peace - he did not relax his back or say to one of his wives, I am tired now, rather, it seems that the matter was not discussed in the first place _ May God's blessings be upon Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace, whoever wants to imitate the Messenger of God, let him take it as a package, and not take what he desires, and leave what he does not desire, Now: In your hands are some of the benefits that the West has gained recently to perfect the relationship between spouses and increase the bonds of love between them (cooperation in household chores).
Do not forget to pray for the Messenger of God - may God bless him and grant him peace before reading an Western study:
According to recent studies, in families with low to medium income level, women are responsible for most of the work, which leads, respectively, to a lower level of psychological satisfaction. This affects the relationships in the family as well as the level of general satisfaction with life, the unfairness of this is especially evident now when most women spend the same amount of time at work.
5 reasons why you should help your wife clean the house
1. Denotes a desire to be a servant leader
How can you trust your wife that you will give your life for her if you can't hold your clothes?
2. Promotes team concept
How can two people walk together unless they agree?
3. Cleaning the house sparks creativity
There is something about creating order in your home that sparks creativity in your work.
4. Cleaning the house shows gratitude and humility
When your blue-gloved hand holds the toilet brush, you're showing humility. This brush is equivalent to a sword that cuts pride. It's a good thing.
5. Cleaning the house makes you attractive
It has been suggested that the man who helps with the housework is the wife's first role. Who knows? It gets more attractive when you push the vacuum cleaner.
6 Unequal division of household chores can erode the marriage partnership
Marriage is a partnership that includes the practical business of running a family. This means keeping financial records, maintaining the home, shopping, planning, cleaning, cooking, childcare, moving, and so on. When practical aspects go smoothly, there is more peace and harmony. However, if friends come in and the house is a mess, if there are no clean clothes to wear, or if it rains heavily and the leaky roof hasn't been fixed because of the procrastination, irritation builds. Misunderstandings arise and conflict can arise.
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