The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, was brought a drink, and he drank, and on his right was a boy, And to his left were the old men, and he said to the boy: If you permit me, I will give those, He said: I would not prefer my share to anyone over you, O Messenger of God, So he twisted it in his hand. Narrator: Sahl bin Saad Al-Saadi | Updated: Al-Bukhari.
From the noble HADITH we can took some points:
1 - The boy’s brilliance and intelligence. He is eloquent in his speech and is not afraid in the presence of the elders, and if this indicates anything, it indicates brilliance since childhood.
2 - The Messenger - may God bless him and grant him peace - practiced etiquette that is common in our days, in the era of prophecy, when he asked the boy to give the elderly people first, this is what is generally accepted. Whoever taught the Messenger of God the etiquette, was good of the characteristic of the Arabs, as the Messenger of God used to say (I have come to perfect the good morals), meaning that they had good morals and the Messenger came to perfect them?
Finally: The sheikhs: We did not hear that one of them slapped the boy’s cheek, or scolded him harshly, or said to the Messenger of God why you silent about him. Rather, the matter went smoothly that we have not seen in our time, He who said (the owner of the right has a say) is right, meaning he has the right to raise his voice or otherwise, and the boy does not want to be influenced by drinking the drink directly after the mouth of the Messenger of God - may God bless him and grant him peace, out of blessing and mercy.
Now look at this scientific saying
The etiquette rule is:
Studies on chimpanzees suggest that sharing food releases oxytocin in both the giver and the receiver, which facilitates bonding. "The release amplifies emotions, and creates a feedback loop.
The greetings
When you greet someone, you acknowledge their presence. Most people do this automatically and barely notice they're doing it. But failing to offer a greeting to someone you know can easily cause hurt feelings and misunderstandings – you are failing to acknowledge their existence in your presence. Little can be considered more offensive than patently ignoring someone, as this strikes to the heart of the most basic of human needs, inclusion and social interaction, If someone who usually greets others in a friendly way does not one day, those other people may feel snubbed or think that person is behaving oddly. This can happen for a variety of reasons, such as being preoccupied or distracted, being late for an appointment and rushing, or even forgetting their glasses and not being able to recognize someone they know.
The conclusion
Who taught the Messenger of God - may God bless him and grant him peace, the etiquette of sharing food and gatherings, and that the young should ask permission for the rights of the elders? It is the etiquette of the Prophet, it is the Islamic etiquette that has mercy on our young, no prohibition is committed against our elders, and the Messenger of humanity taught the humanity with this situation how to respect the children, no matter how young they are, because that is what makes them adults after a while, with their actions and high self-esteem is rarely known by the educators, life coaching and the like.
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