5431 - حدثني عبد العزيز بن عبد الله قال: حدثني سليمان، عن ثور بن زيد، عن أبي الغيث، عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه:أن رسول الله ﷺ قال: (اجتنبوا الموبقات: الشرك بالله، والسحر). 5431 - Abd al-Aziz ibn Abdullah told me, he said: Suleiman told me, on the authority of Thawr ibn Zayd, on the authority of Abu al-Ghaith, on the authority of Abu Hurairah, may God be pleased with him: That the Messenger of God, peace be upon him, said: (Avoid the evils: polytheism and witchcraft).

6699 – حدثنا أبو اليمان: أخبرنا شعيب، عن الزُهري قال: قال سعيد بن المسيَّب: أخبرني أبو هريرة رضي الله عنه: أن رسول الله ﷺ قال: (لا تقوم الساعة حتى تضطرب أليات نساء دوس على ذي الخلصة) 6700 – حدثنا عبد العزيز بن عبد الله: حدثني سليمان، عن ثور، عن أبي الغيث، عن أبي هريرة:أن رسول الله ﷺ قال: (لا تقوم الساعة حتى يخرج رجل من قحطان، يسوق الناس بعصاه) 3-22 - Chapter: Changing the times so that idols will worship The first Hadith : 6699 - Abu Al-Yaman told us: Shuaib told us, on the authority of Al-Zuhri, he said: Saeed bin Al-Musayyib said: Abu Huraira, may God be pleased with him, told me: The Messenger of God, peace be upon him, said: The Hour will not come until the butt of the women of Dos at (Dhul-Khalasa) are disturbed. The second Hadith: 6700 - Abdul Aziz bin Abdullah told us: Suleiman told me, on the authority of Thor, on the authority of Abu Al Ghaith, on the authority of Abu Huraira: The Messenger of God, peace and blessings be upon him, said: “The Hour will not come until a man from Qahtan comes out, driving people with his stick.” And The exploration about two Hadiths: First, who is the Doss tribe, and where is it located on themap? TheYemeni Dos tribe is one of the Arab tribes located in the Arabian Peninsula, which is the original home of the people of this tribe,some differed as to the knowledge of the lineage of the Doss tribe, some attributed them to Dos bin Imran bin Al-Mudar, and others attributed them to Dos bin Adthan bin Zahran bin Al-Azd, This tribe was distinguished by the success of its sons, and the companion Abu Huraira was known among them, who was known for his memorization and dissemination of prophetic hadiths. 1 - Praise be to God, the hour has not yet approached - as far as we know - we have not heard of women from Yemen worshiping an idol deity from the famous idols in the world now or in Yemen in particular, 2 - Dhul-Khalasa: The tyrant of Daus that they worshiped in the pre-Islamic era, and it is a metaphor for the repetition of idolatry and the circumambulation of these women around them and their travels to them. (tyrant) is an idol, and a name for every falsehood and what is worshiped besides God Almighty, 3 - These idols in the picture above- they are only the tip of the iceberg - of what is happening in the world now, including some followers - under oppression, subjugation of slavery - we ask God for safety for all. 4 - Qahtan is an island Sabaean tribe that dates back to the Canadian era. It emerged in the Umayyad era. The tribe spreads in the southern region of the Arabian Peninsula, Kuwait, and Qatar. The largest part of the tribe resides in southern Saudi Arabia, and part of them is in the Tihama, And a part in Najd, where the people of the villages (the villagers) and the Bedouins alike are present, and a number of travelers wrote about them (thanks be to God, we have not heard - within the limits of our knowledge of the appearance of this man). About a man who claimed divinity in the Arab world so far In the end: We are not about to belittle any of the earthly religions that have idols - but we are about to believe the words of the Messenger of God - may God bless him and grant him peace and his predictions for the end of time, and we will not forget his saying, the Exalted. (Indeed, those whobelieved, and those who were Jews and Sabians: converts from one religion to another, the Christians and the Magi,and those who associate themselves with partners, for God will judge between them on the Day The links of Resurrection, for God is witness to all things (17)) https://www.tatnews.org/2014/12/10-of-the-worlds-most-impressive-religious-statues/ https://www.rethinknow.org/idol-worship-today/

[2587 ] حدثنا عبد الله بن يوسف أخبرنا مالك عن نافع عن عبد الله بن عمر رضى الله تعالى عنهما أن رسول الله ﷺ قال : ما حق امرئ مسلم له شيء يوصي فيه يبيت ليلتين إلا ووصيته مكتوبةعنده تابعة محمد بن مسلم عن عمرو عن ابن عمر عن النبي ﷺ [2587] Abdullah bin Yusuf told us, Malik told us on the authority of Nafi’ on the authority of Abdullah bin Omar, may God be pleased with them both, that the Messenger of God, peace be upon him, said: What is the right of a Muslim who has something to recommened with, sleeps two nights except His will is written at him, Following Muhammad bin Muslim on the authority of Amr on the authority of Ibn Umar on the authority of the Prophet ﷺ

923] حدثنا زكريا بن يحيى أبو السكين قال: حدثنا المحاربي قال: حدثنا محمد بن سوقة عن سعيد بن جبير قال: كنت مع ابن عمر حين أصابه سنان الرمح في أخمص قدمه فلزقت قدمه بالركاب فنزلت فنزعتها وذلك بمنى فبلغ الحجاج فجعل يعوده، فقال الحجاج لو نعلم من أصابك، فقال ابن عمر أنت أصبتني قال وكيف قال حملت السلاح في يوم لم يكن يحمل فيه وأدخلت السلاح الحرم ولم يكن السلاح يدخل الحرم [923] Zakaria bin Yahya Abu Al-Sakin told us, he said: Al-Muharibi told us, he said: Muhammad bin Suqa told us on the authority of Saeed bin Jubair who said: I was with Ibn Omar when the spear hit him in the sole of his foot, and his foot stuck to the stirrup, so I went down and took it off, and that was in Mina, and it reached al-Hajjaj, so he began to visit him. Al-Hajjaj said, “If only we knew who hit you, Ibn Omar said: You hit me. He said: How, He said I carried the weapon on a day when it was not carried and entered the weapon the sanctuary and the weapon doesn't not the sanctuary.

[618] حدثنا عبد الله بن يوسف قال: أخبرنا مالك عن أبي الزناد عن الأعرج عن أبي هريرة أن رسول الله ﷺ قال: والذي نفسي بيده لقد هممت أن آمر بحطب فيحطب ثم آمر بالصلاة فيؤذن لها ثم آمر رجلا فيؤم الناس ثم أخالف إلى رجال فأحرق عليهم بيوتهم والذي نفسي بيده لو يعلم أحدهم أنه يجد عرقا سمينا أو مرماتين حسنتين لشهد العشاء [618] Abdullah bin Yusuf told us, he said: Malik told us on the authority of Abu Al-Zinad on the authority of Al-Araj on the authority of Abu Hurairah, that the Messenger of God, peace be upon him, said: By Him in Whose Hand is my soul I was about to order firewood, so that it will be firewood, then I order the prayer and it is called to prayer, then I order a man to lead the people, then go back to the men and burn their houses over them, By the One in whose my soul in his Hand , if someone knew that he would find fat sweat: (which ate the meat with the teeth) Or two good shots for the Aashaa prayer.

[699] حدثنا أبو اليمان قال: أخبرنا شعيب عن الزهري قال: أخبرني أنس بن مالك الأنصارى أن رسول الله ﷺ ركب فرسا فجحش شقه الأيمن قال أنس رضى الله تعالى عنه فصلى لنا يومئذ صلاة من الصلوات وهو قاعد فصلينا وراءه قعودا، ثم قال لما سلم إنما جعل الإمام ليؤتم به فإذا صلى قائما فصلوا قياما وإذا ركع فاركعوا وإذا رفع فارفعوا وإذا سجد فاسجدوا وإذا قال سمع الله لمن حمده فقولوا ربنا ولك الحمد [699] Abu Al-Yaman told us, he said: Shuaib told us on the authority of Al-Zuhri, he said: Anas bin Malik Al-Ansari told me that the Messenger of God, peace be upon him; He rode a horse, stepping off his right flat, Anas, may God be pleased with him, said, and he prayed for us on that day one of the prayers, While he was sitting, we prayed behind him while we was sitting, Then he said when he greeted, the imam was only made to be followed by him, If he prays standing, pray standing, and if he bow, bow, And when he stand, then stand, and when he prostrates, prostrate, and if he says, “God hears those who praise Him, say our Lord, to you our praise.

[578] حدثنا عمران بن ميسرة حدثنا عبد الوارث حدثنا خالد الحذاء عن أبي قلابة عن أنس قال: ذكروا النار والناقوس فذكروا اليهود والنصارى فأمر بلال أن يشفع الأذان وأن يوتر الإقامة [578] Imran bin Maysara told us Abd al-Warith told us Khalid al-Zuta'a on the authority of Abu Qilabah On the authority of Anas, he said: They mentioned the fire and the bell, so they mentioned the Jews and the Christians, So Bilal ordered to tashfe' for the call to prayer (that is, make it twice) and to make the iqaamah wtr (make it one).

[327] حدثنا عبد الله بن يوسف قال : أخبرنا مالك عن عبد الرحمن بن القاسم عن أبيه عن عائشة زوج النبي ﷺ قالت خرجنا مع رسول الله ﷺ في بعض أسفاره حتى إذا كنا بالبيداء أو بذات الجيش انقطع عقد لي فأقام رسول الله ﷺ على التماسه وأقام الناس معه وليسوا على ماء فأتى الناس إلى أبي بكر الصديق فقالوا ألا ترى ما صنعت عائشة أقامت برسول الله ﷺ والناس وليسوا على ماء وليس معهم ماء فجاء أبو بكر ورسول الله ﷺ واضع رأسه على فخذي قد نام ، فقال حبست رسول الله ﷺ والناس وليسوا على ماء وليس معهم ماء فقالت عائشة فعاتبني أبو بكر ، وقال : ما شاء الله أن يقول وجعل يطعنني بيده في خاصرتي فلا يمنعني من التحرك إلا مكان رسول الله ﷺ على فخذي فقام رسول الله ﷺ حين أصبح على غير ماء فأنزل الله آية التيمم فتيمموا ، فقال أسيد بن الحضير ما هي بأول بركتكم يا آل أبي بكر قالت فبعثنا البعير الذي كنت عليه فأصبنا العقد تحته [327] Abdullah bin Yusuf told us, he said: Malik told us on the authority of Abdul Rahman bin Al Qasim on the authority of his father on the authority of Aisha, the wife of the Prophet, peace be upon him, She said: We went out with the Messenger of God, peace and blessings be upon him, on some of his travels, even if we were in the desert or in the army, my necklace was cut off, so the Messenger of God, peace and blessings be upon him, set out to search for it, and the people stayed with him, and they were not on water, so the people came to Abu Bakr as-Siddiq and said: Do you not see what Aisha did? she stayed with the Messenger of God, peace be upon him, and the people were not on water, and they had no water, Abu Bakr came and the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, was sleeping with his head on my thigh, and he said: I have locked up the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, while the people are not on water, and they have no water, Aisha said, Abu Bakr blamed me, and said: What God willed to say, and he started to stab me in my waist with his hand, nothing prevents me from moving except the place of the Messenger of God, peace be upon him, on my thigh, The Messenger of God, peace and blessings be upon him, got up when it was morning without water, and God revealed the verse of tayammum, so they perform tayammum, Usayd bin Al-Hadair said: What is your first blessing, O family of Abu Bakr? She said, We moved the camel that I was on, so we saw the necklace under it. Th e related studies First: eat dirt What is dirt? What exactly is the contents of dirt made of? Dirt (also called soil or earth) contains a mixture of rock, clay, sand, and other organic matter, and dirt is usually filled with minerals and various microorganisms. Depending on your location, the amounts of these materials will vary, as will the types of materials the dirt is made of dirt. Dirt Benefit #1: Strengthens the immune system One of the primary benefits of dirt is that it supports a healthy immune system. The New York Times reports on the "hygiene hypothesis," which explains that dirt contains millions of bacteria and viruses that actually help develop a healthy immune system. Dirt Benefit #2: Detoxifies the body Dirt may actually detoxify the body – people use clay and charcoal to detoxify their skin, but these same properties found in dirt may also act as a detoxifying agent from within the body as well. Scientific American reports, "Researchers take another look at eating dirt and discover that the behavior often supplies people and animals with vital minerals and dampens the activity of toxins from food and the environment." It may benefit pregnant women People have eaten dirt and mud for centuries - all too often, the people who find themselves craving dirt are pregnant women. ABC News reports that, “While most people hold back from the idea of ​​eating mud or clay, some medical experts say it may be beneficial, especially for pregnant women.” Dirt, especially in areas rich in mud, contains a lot of essential minerals such as magnesium and copper. calcium and iron, which explains why pregnant women crave it—their bodies need more minerals than usual because they created another human life: In pre-industrial times, just a handful of dirt might do the same job as a prenatal vitamin #4: Helps Prevent Allergies With allergies, we return to the hygiene hypothesis, as ABC News explains that research has found that children who grew up in rural environments, especially on farms, have significantly fewer allergies and autoimmune disorders than children who were born and raised in cities. "Some researchers believe exposure to soil and other environmental impurities is to blame," they explain. Dirt Benefit #5: May settle in the stomach If you've ever had an upset stomach, you may have taken an over-the-counter medication that tastes "chalky" like an antacid, because it was probably made from kaolin, the primary substance in white clay. Antacid properties, which can relieve nausea, acidity and indigestion. Dirt Benefit #6: Helps Smooth Digestion You may have heard of the "gut microbiome," the tiny ecosystem of good bacteria that live in the digestive system and help keep digestion moving smoothly. And exposure to dirt can cause your microbiome to flourish by encouraging new, healthy bacteria to develop and grow, according to this. Additionally, clay has binding properties that can help when you suffer from loose bowel movements, however, it can also make you constipated if you consume too much. Do you really have to eat dirt? Toxic substances such as pesticides and lead may also be present in the dirt, so you should not eat dirt from the ground. Alternatively, you can buy a supplement of ground or clay that will give you some benefits. Just introduce a little dirt into your daily life. Rinse organic fruits and vegetables with water, but do not take extreme measures to sanitize them; swim in the ocean; Walk barefoot, play with the dogs, and allow yourself to get a little dirty from time to time. Secondly: Dirt is an antidepressant No one will blame you for not wanting to infect your body with creatures from your garden. But maybe you should rethink your position. In a research paper published in 2007 in the journal Neuroscience, Lowry and his team wrote that bacteria activate groups of neurons in the brains of mice that are responsible for producing serotonin — a neurotransmitter that can cause depression when exposed to infection. Even more interesting, the neurons that lit up were also known to be associated with the immune response, suggesting an intimate connection between the immune system and emotional health. Scientists are finding more and more evidence that depression and other mental health conditions are linked to prolonged inflammation — a sign Confirmed that there is a problem with the immune system. Treatment for some cancerous tumors In 2004, Mary O'Brien, an oncologist at the Royal Marsden Hospital in London, published a paper with unexpected results: She injected lung cancer patients with a common harmless soil bacterium, the Mycobacterium vaccine, to see if it could extend their lives. M. Vaccae has had some success in previous trials where it tested its ability to fight drug-resistant pulmonary tuberculosis and boost the immune system's response. O'Brien believed that the bacteria could help her patients' immune systems beat the cancer in their lungs. I failed. Only, it worked elsewhere: an injection of bacteria "significantly improved the patient's quality of life," O'Brien wrote in the research paper detailing the findings. Her patients were happier, more energetic, and had better cognitive functioning—in short, this reduced the emotional toll of advanced cancer. There are many, many studies on this subject that you can research on your own, but the idea of tayammum in Islam is not an idea that lags behind the current data, as some claim. ِAnd, Note 1 - that tayammum was originally prescribed for disease, and dirt is considered a natural detox - in the language of the era - who taught the Messenger of God - may God’s prayers and peace be upon him?!! 2 - Also note that God - the Most High - when He chose the upbringing of the Messenger of God is not in Medina or Mecca (the best country of God with God), but chose the desert for him to grow up in the bosom of nature.

[245] حدثنا عبد الله بن يوسف قال : أخبرنا مالك عن هشام عن أبيه عن عائشة زوج النبي ﷺ أن النبي ﷺ كان إذا اغتسل من الجنابة بدأ فغسل يديه ثم يتوضأ كما يتوضأ للصلاة ثم يدخل أصابعه في الماء فيخلل بها أصول شعره ثم يصب على رأسه ثلاث غرف بيديه ثم يفيض الماء على جلده كله [245] Abdullah bin Yusuf told us, he said: Malik told us on the authority of Hisham, on the authority of his father, on the authority of Aisha, the wife of the Prophet, peace be upon him, When the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, used to take a bath from impurity, he would start by washing his hands Then he performs ablution as he performs ablution for prayer, then he would put his fingers in the water, and would penetrate the roots of his hair with them, then he pours three chambers over his head with his hands, then pours water over his entire skin. [246] حدثنا محمد بن يوسف قال : حدثنا سفيان عن الأعمش عن سالم بن أبي الجعد عن كريب عن ابن عباس عن ميمونة زوج النبي ﷺ قالت توضأ رسول الله ﷺ وضوءه للصلاة غير رجليه وغسل فرجه وما أصابه من الأذى ثم أفاض عليه الماء ثم نحى رجليه فغسلهما هذه غسله من الجنابة [246] Muhammad bin Yusuf told us, he said: Sufyan told us on the authority of Al-Amash on the authority of Salem bin Abi Al-Jaad on the authority of Karib on the authority of Ibn Abbas on the authority of Maymoona, the wife of the Prophet ﷺ She said, The Messenger of God, peace be upon him, performed ablution for prayer, without his feet, wash his private parts, and whatever harm befalls him, Then he poured water on him, then moved his feet and washed them, this is his washing of impurity The related study: Hygiene after sex What to do after sex to make sure you don't get an infection Hygiene after sex, if not maintained, can lead to various complications for your sensitive genitals and make you really sick. This is all you need to do after sex to stay healthy. wash your hands It is the best way to get rid of bacteria that you may pick up when touching your or your partner's genitals. This is the key to preventing the spread of infection. Wash with soap and water and make it part of your cleaning routine after sex. Take care of any yeast infection Partners can pass these back and forth during sex. (Yes, men also get yeast infections.) So if you notice symptoms — itching, burning, or thick white discharge from the vagina or penis — treat it before the next time you get busy. Talk to your doctor if you think you have one. Clean and wash your genitals Having sex does not mean turning off the light and sleeping. Go out to the bathroom and wash your genitals (not the inside), although you don't have to shower immediately after sex. Gently washing your genitals with water will help you avoid any type of infection including a urinary tract infection (UTI) and this applies to both men and women. You can try a mild soap, but it is wise not to use soap in case you have sensitive skin or if you already have an infection. Soap can dry out the area and cause irritation. Men who have the foreskin should gently pull it back and wash underneath, experts suggest. Cleaning should be simple Cleaning up after sex should not include any kind of lotion, wipes, creams, or sprays. While we usually assume these help rejuvenate your own organs, they may end up damaging the area. Some are made with harsh soaps, detergents, shampoos, perfumes, or lotions that can chalk up your skin in and around your personal areas. Rinsing the area with warm water is the best solution. Try to stay away from tampons, pads, powders, and scented sprays, especially if you have a tendency to get infections quickly. Go pee after sex It is important to urinate after sex because this reduces your chance of getting an infection. Bacteria can enter the urethra at the time of sex. The urethra is the tube that carries urine out of your body. The moment you urinate, these germs exit your body with your urine. Women should wipe from front to back to prevent the spread of bacteria. Now, what's in your mind ? Are you think that The Prophet - peace be upon him - well educated without paper or pen? May Allah peace be upon him.

The Phase two In the calling The secret call ended with the revelation of the verse: “And warn your kindred to your clan” (Al-Shu`ara’: 214), So the call entered its second phase, which is the call to prayer out loud only without a fight, It began with the invitation of the relatives of the Messenger of God - may God’s prayers and peace be upon him - from Bani Hashim and Bani Abd al-Muttalib, and this period lasted ten years. Where it extended to the blessed migration. The invitaion for food ( 54 men) Where the Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, moved, and invited his relatives to food, and their number was forty-five from his family and clan; As the invitation to food softens hearts and inspires affection and intimacy. The first advocacy position of his clan - may God bless him and grant him peace - In this meeting, and before the Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, spoke, and before he made it clear to them about his call, a strange thing happened, which was transmitted by Ibn al-Atheer, may God have mercy on him, in his book, Al-Kamil fi Al-Tarikh, where he said: Ja`far bin Abdullah bin Abi Al-Hakam said: When God revealed to His Messenger: {And warn your kindred to your close relative} [Al-Shu`ara’: 214] It became difficult for him and he was tired of it, so he sat in his home like a sick person, so his aunts came to visit him, and he said: "I did not complain about anything, but God commanded me to warn my nearest relatives" she said to him: So call them, and do not invit Abu Lahab with them, for he will not answer you, so the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, called them, and they came with a group of Banu al-Muttalib ibn Abd Manaf, who were forty-five men, Abu Lahab take initiative and said to him: These are your paternal uncles and cousins, speak and say goodbye to the youth, and know that your people among the Arabs have absolutely no capacity, And if the one who took you has the right to imprison you, your father's sons imprisoned you, and if you continue as you are, it will be easier for them, that the stomachs of the Quraish would leap at you and the Arabs would supply them, I did not see anyone who came to his father's children with more evil than what you brought to them, The Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, remained silent and did not speak in that gathering, The second advocacy position of his clan - may God bless him and grant him peace - Jaafar bin Abdullah bin Abi Al-Hakam said: “Then he called them again and said: Praise be to God, I praise Him, and I seek His help and I believe in Him, and I trust in Him, and I bear witness that there is no god but Allah alone no partner for him, then he said: “Indeed, the pioneer does not lie to his family, and by God, there is no god but Him, I am God’s Messenger to you in particular, and to the people in general, by God, you will die as you sleep, and that you will be resurrected as you awaken, and that you will be held accountable for what you do, for it is heaven for ever and Hell for ever, Abu Talib said: We love your assistance, we are more accepting of your advice, and we most believe in your speech, these are the sons of your father gathered together, but I am one of them, but I am the quickest of them to do what you like, so proceed with what you have been commanded, for by God I will still protect you and prevent you, However, my soul does not allow me to part with the religion of Abdul Muttalib. Abu Lahab said: By God, this is evil, take on his hands before he takes others. Abu Talib said: By God, we will prevent him as long as we remain. Let's analyze the Prophet's words. - As much as we can. (Indeed, the pioneer: the one who is at the forefront of his people: his family does not lie) Why? Because he will lead them in a way, and if they lose the way because of him, they may kill him or, at the very least, harm him. It is a rational speech and gives them a part of reassurance, especially since his nickname in the Jahiliyyah (The Truthful Al-Amin) - may God’s prayers and peace be upon him. (By God, you will not die as you sleep, and will be resurrected as you awaken) All speech does not contain talk about God Almighty, there is no talk except for the consequences and their interest, not his interest, My master, the Messenger of God - nor is the interest of God - come - from their worship. Their reaction Note: Abu Talib: it's more like to us help you, and we accept your advice, and we strongly believe in your speech, and these are your father’s sons gathered together, but I am one of them, but I am the fastest of them to what you love, go ahead as you are commanded, for by God I will still protect you and prevent you, except that my soul does not obey me in parting from the religion of Abd al-Muttalib, Abu Lahab said: By God, this is evil! Take on his hands before he takes others. Abu Talib said: By God, we will prevent him as long as we remain. We thus benefit from this part 1 - Calling each tribe in its name is a form of community respect and good citizenship, even if the idea is different. 2 - The beginning of the hadith: a talk about its basic qualities (honesty and trustworthiness) on which no two people in the Quraish disagree, to the extent that they - he prayed that they would trust him for their deposits until he left Mecca - may God bless him and grant him peace - and it is like a clean floor on which we place impersonal demands. 3 - Abu Lahab’s saying: Damn you: and Damn is destruction, so the destruction was on Abu Lahab and not on the Messenger, for speech is entrusted with pronunciation. That is, what was the linguistic meaning of the word except that it was an insult to the Messenger - may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, and you are an expert that cursing relieves the soul of its severe distress, this is according to modern scientific studies, and this is in the first and last is his uncle, so if people see his uncle do that with him, so, what they do after that. Related Studies Signs that your family members are toxic 1- You feel sad and fall around them 2- You feel angry around them 3 - You don't want to go see them 4 - You find yourself having to take care of them 5- You feel drained when you are around them Others can follow the link below Another study Why is a "family wound" so painful Not only is it especially painful when our family members hurt us, it's actually more painful than when friends hurt us. According to Anita Vangelisti, professor of communication at the University of Texas at Austin, hurt is a feeling of emotional injury that communication can cause. Family harm is particularly painful for several reasons. The Vangelisti study found that people who experienced these types of environments were more dissatisfied with their family relationships. Recent research takes family harm and alienation to another level. Christina M. Sharp* (Research Professor and Fellow here at Utah State University) I have new research this month in the Annals of the Interpersonal Communication Association that describes how family distancing works in relation to family "black sheep" and family alienation, two chronically stressful outcomes fairly common in United State, We advocate that sometimes distancing is a healthy solution to toxic family relationships marked by abuse and neglect. Family members who are able to keep their distance from each other are often asked about their family situation and encouraged by others to mend their relationships, even if those relationships are unhealthy. This painful question is likely motivated by societal beliefs about the importance of the family and the idea that families are "forever." We conclude from the two previous studies the followings: 1 - The wisdom of God - the Most High - willed that only one of his paternal uncles would stand in the back of the Messenger of God, who had no money like the others, so Abu Lahab and Abu Jahl were more prestige and wealthier in the Quraysh, until he knows the meaning of reliance on God - the Almighty - and he will not forget him from his calculations - and note that God make this to him and he is his beloved Messenger - 2 - God’s wisdom willed - that the male children of Muhammad - may God bless him and grant him peace - die so that there is no inheritance of prophecy. The links http://www.ilanelanzen.com/familyandparenting/10-signs-you-have-toxic-family-members-and-3-things-you-can-do-about-it/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/conscious-communication/201703/why-family-hurt-is-so-painful ttps://www.alukah.net/sharia/0/55541/ https://kitabat.com/2021/02/12/%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%85%D8%B4%D8%B1%D9%83%D9%88%D9%86-%D9%85%D9%86-%D9%82%D8%B1%D9%8A%D8%B4-%D9%88-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%AF%D8%B9%D9%88%D8%A9-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%A5%D8%B3%D9%84%D8%A7%D9%85%D9%8A%D8%A9/ https://www.islamstory.com/ar/artical/3406641/%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%AC%D9%87%D8%B1-%D8%A8%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%AF%D8%B9%D9%88%D8%A9